Thinking About Dad
Time is finite.
Relationships with dad are complicated.
In my early years, my dad was non-existent in my life.
He didn’t really want much to do with me because I reminded him of my mom, whom he had divorced and left.
But, he’s seventy-two, and I’m reminded that I should say something to him, not because it’s a special day, but because it’s an ordinary day, and time is fleeting.
Mom died in nine hours.
I could get a call about him at any moment.
Wherever you are in your relationship with your Dad, don’t let anything go unsaid.
It’s worth a little time, and the peace of your mind and your heart to say something- anything- that’s worthy of being said if he’s not here tomorrow, because you never know.
Say it today.
Do it now.
Set yourself free before you become trapped by not saying something you wish you would have said.

My dad died in 2019. Our relationship had been tense at times, but by the time he died, we were on great terms. I’m so relieved that I don’t have to carry any guilt.
My dad dying increased my fear about my mum. She’s 73 and her death has been a constant fear since I was a boy. I used to think if I got to 40 I’d be an adult and wouldn’t worry about it. I’m 45 now…
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